Retreat Oak Leaf

Oak Leaf, TX  ·  Summer 2026  ·  10 Women Only

Unmasked

A 5-Day, 4-Night Immersive Retreat
for Later-in-Life Lesbians

5 days · 4 nights · 20 private acres · 20 min south of Dallas

You came out.
You did the brave thing.

And somehow the people-pleasing didn't stop.

Reserve My Spot $500 deposit holds your room  ·  Only 10 spots
Retreat Oak Leaf
The truth

You are still saying yes when you mean no.

Still shrinking so others feel comfortable.

Still performing a version of yourself that is easier for everyone else to digest.


And the worst part?

You know better.


You have done the work. Read the books. Listened to the podcasts. Maybe even worked with a coach.


But something in you is still stuck.


That something is not a mindset problem. It lives in your body. In your nervous system. In the patterns that formed long before you had words for any of this.


Unmasked is where you go
to finally release it.

Is this you?

This retreat is for some women.
Not all of them.

This IS for you if...
  • You came out later in life and are still figuring out who you are outside of who everyone else needed you to be
  • You know people-pleasing is running your life and you are ready to do real work to change it — not just talk about changing it
  • You are tired of performing even within queer spaces and crave a room where you can finally just be
  • You want somatic, body-based healing — not another workshop where you take notes and go home the same person
  • You are ready to laugh, play, and be ridiculous with women who get it on a bone-deep level
  • You are a current Liberated Lesbian Membership member or coaching client ready to go deeper in person
  • You are willing to show up imperfect, in-process, and fully yourself
This is NOT for you if...
  • You are looking for a spa weekend or a passive experience where someone else does the work for you
  • You are not ready to go to the root — you want surface tools only
  • You are in active crisis or need a higher level of clinical support than a retreat can provide
  • You are not open to somatic or subconscious work like RIM, EFT, or breathwork
  • You expect perfection — from yourself, from others, or from the experience
  • You are not a later-in-life lesbian or someone on that journey
  • You are not willing to be in community — this is a group experience, not a solo retreat
But also

This is not only deep work.
It is also pure joy.

Play is not a reward for doing the hard work. Play IS the work. For women who spent decades being everything for everyone, being loud and silly and free is revolutionary.

You will laugh harder than you have in years. Cook dinner together. Stargaze on open acreage with women who finally, finally get it.

🛝100-Foot Water Slide

Lands in a private lagoon. Screaming optional. Laughing mandatory.

🛶Private Kayak Lagoon

1-acre lagoon with a putting green island. Peaceful, stunning, yours.

🏊Pool & Hot Tub

High-end pool on 20 private acres. No neighbors. No performing.

🔥Firepit

Where stories get told, things get burned, and the night ends right.

🎱Bunkhouse Games

Pool table, foosball, dry bar. Game night is inevitable.

🌿20 Private Acres

Walking trails, open sky. No one watching. No one performing.

Food & meals

You will be fed.

No one is doing the hardest work of their life on an empty stomach. Here is what every night looks like.

Every Morning Self-Serve Breakfast

Breakfast supplies stocked and ready each morning. Make what you want, when you want it. Bring your own favorites too — the kitchen is yours.

Night 1 Community Cook Dinner

The group cooks together on the first night. Hot dogs, burgers, fruit, veggies — or Uber Eats if that is more your speed. No judgment. Just gather.

Night 2 Pizza Night

Pizza delivered. Easy, communal, no cleanup. Some of the best conversations of the retreat happen around this table.

Night 3 — Oak Lawn Your Night Out

The group heads to Oak Lawn. You choose your restaurant, you pay for your meal. This is your night to be fully out and fully free in queer Dallas.

Night 4 Catered Celebration Dinner

Your last night together deserves something elevated. A catered dinner to mark who you were when you arrived — and who you are now.

Throughout Coffee, Tea & Snacks

Available all day every day. Bring your own favorites and stash them in the kitchen — it belongs to all of you.

Day by day

The schedule

Structured sessions morning and early evening only. Every afternoon belongs to you. Self-care is non-negotiable and built into every single morning.

01Arrive

Arrive & Land

You made it. Put it all down.

Welcome bag on arrival. Your Unmasking Meditation delivered to your inbox. Free time to swim, play, and explore the property. Welcome circle. Community cook dinner. Firepit into the night. No agenda. Just arrive.

✦ The Unmasking Meditation arrives in your inbox today — listen whenever you need to come back to yourself
02Release

The Stories We Carry

Name what people-pleasing has cost you. Then burn it.

Self-care morning. Activating breathwork. Morning check-in circle and EFT Tapping session — learn the tool, use it on something real. Free afternoon. Pizza night. After dark: burning ceremony and scream session at the firepit.

✦ Evening 9D (optional): Integration and Regeneration — $25 · VIP included
03Break Free

Break Free

Go to the root. Then walk into the world wearing it.

Self-care morning. Activating breathwork. Group RIM session — the subconscious work that goes where talk therapy cannot. Integration lunch. Free afternoon. Then the group heads to Oak Lawn. The drive from Oak Leaf is approximately 35-40 minutes. Walk Cedar Springs. Step into Sue Ellen's. Dinner is yours — choose your spot, own your night in queer Dallas.

✦ Evening 9D (optional): Down Regulation and Regeneration — $25 · VIP included
04Come Home

Coming Home to You

Who are you without the mask?

Self-care morning. Guided meditation outdoors. Open sharing circle. Rock-led outdoor experience with Annie — just you, the land, and what you have been carrying. Free afternoon. Laughter and games. Catered celebration dinner. Stargazing on open acreage.

✦ Evening 9D (optional): The Sovereign Breath — $25 · VIP included
05Unmasked

Unmasked & Free

You are ready. Go live it.

Heart Gratitude morning breath. Slow breakfast. Closing meditation and send-off circle — every woman speaks. Long hugs. Departures by 11am. You leave with your Unmasking Meditation, your community, and the woman you actually are.

"You have spent decades being who everyone else needed you to be.

This is five days of finally being who you actually are."

Your host
Annie M. Henderson
Annie M. Henderson on TikTok

Annie M. Henderson

Former Licensed Professional Counselor. Life coach. Three-time author. Certified RIM Facilitator. EFT Practitioner. 9D Breathwork Facilitator. Over a decade of experience helping women come home to themselves.

She built a TikTok community of over 110,000 later-in-life lesbians from scratch — because this community deserved a place to land. She knows what it costs to come out late. She knows what it costs to keep performing after. And she knows exactly how to hold a room full of women doing the hardest and most liberating work of their lives.

She is not going to guide you through a surface-level experience. She is going into the deep water with you.

"Lesbian? Tired of shrinking? I help you quit people-pleasing and reclaim your life. Real talk. Regulated tools."

@anniemhenderson on TikTok
Your investment

Choose your room

Every tier includes full access to all programming, all meals, your welcome bag, ceremony candle, and printed workbook. One clean price — everything included. Secure your spot with a $500 deposit, then pay off your balance over 3 or 6 monthly installments.

Bunkhouse Hall

Standalone bunkhouse · 4 bunk beds · sleeps up to 8 · pool table, foosball, dry bar

$1,594Alumni & Member: $1,294 Pay in full: $1,494 (save $100) · or 3 / 6 monthly installments Welcome bag included
Cabin Bunk

Lagoon cabin · 2 bunk beds · sleeps up to 4 · nature-immersed

$1,794Alumni & Member: $1,494 Pay in full: $1,694 (save $100) · or 3 / 6 monthly installments Welcome bag included
Private RoomCabin Queen

Private queen bed · lagoon cabin · your sanctuary by the water

$1,994Alumni & Member: $1,694 Pay in full: $1,894 (save $100) · or 3 / 6 monthly installments Welcome bag included
Private RoomMain House Queen

Private queen bedroom · main farmhouse · comfortable & well-appointed

$2,094Alumni & Member: $1,794 Pay in full: $1,994 (save $100) · or 3 / 6 monthly installments Welcome bag included

Alumni & Member pricing for current Liberated Lesbian Membership clients and coaching alumni. $500 non-refundable deposit holds your room. Remaining balance paid over 3 or 6 monthly installments.

VIP Upgrade

+$699 added to any room · Over $1,000 in value · You save $323 · Only 3 spots
$699 Only 3 spots available

The Unmasking Meditation

Every guest receives Annie's custom Unmasking Meditation delivered on Day 1. Yours to keep and return to forever — during the retreat, after you go home, or any time the real world gets loud.

Reserve My Spot — $500 Deposit Only 10 spots · Summer 2026 · Oak Leaf, TX
Questions

Everything you need to know

Who is this retreat for?

Later-in-life lesbians healing from people-pleasing who are ready for real, body-based work in community. Current Liberated Lesbian Membership clients and coaching alumni get priority access and member pricing.

What is RIM and do I need prior experience?

RIM (Regenerating Images in Memory) is an evidence-based process for transforming painful memories and subconscious patterns at the root. No experience needed. Annie guides you through everything. It goes where talk therapy cannot — and that is exactly the point.

What food is included?

Breakfast supplies are stocked each morning. Night 1 is a community cook dinner. Night 2 is pizza night. Night 3 is your own night out in Oak Lawn — your choice, your bill. Night 4 is a catered celebration dinner. Coffee, tea, and snacks available throughout.

How does payment work?

A $500 non-refundable deposit holds your room. The remaining balance is paid over 3 or 6 monthly installments. No hard deadline — we work it out together.

What are the evening 9D breathwork sessions?

Each evening Annie offers an optional 9D breathwork session with headphones in groups of 4. Every night has a different theme matched to that day's work. Sessions are $25 each and completely optional. VIP guests receive all 4 included.

How do I get there?

Retreat Oak Leaf is approximately 35 minutes from DFW International Airport. Full travel details and carpool coordination are shared with all registered guests.

What is the cancellation policy?

The $500 deposit is non-refundable. If you need to cancel, your spot may be transferred to another woman. Reach out directly — Annie handles every situation with care.

You do not have to wait anymore.

10 spots. Summer 2026. Oak Leaf, TX.
$500 deposit holds your room.

Reserve My Spot Now Questions? Email annie@liberatedlesbian.com

psst — there is a small but very real chance you might see some familiar faces around the property. 🖤 Sam and Saige may be on site for some or all of the retreat. just saying.

Annie M. Henderson